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Does just<\/em> the thought of the holiday season make your heart race? So much to do, people to see, and things to think about. It’s daunting. But there are oodles of ways to stay balanced and at peace during the busiest time of the year. It’s your time, too, and with a few things in mind, you can create sacred space. What is sacred space? It’s creating experiences, quiet time, and celebrations just for yourself. It’s time to regenerate your joy, enthusiasm and energy.<\/p>\n Here\u2019s my TOP 5 list. I am sure you can think of more…<\/p>\n Number 5 \u2013 Be Yourself<\/strong><\/p>\n It\u2019s hard for some people to say, “No.”\u00a0<\/strong>No one wants to be thought of as a party pooper. But you don\u2019t have to become someone else during the holidays. If you are not the kind who makes cookies, brings them to the party and is the life of the party \u2013 don\u2019t try to be that person or do those things. And there is no law that you have to send holiday cards either \u2013 or provide a detailed annual family letter. If that\u2019s you \u2013 great! If not, be like Elsa and let it go. <LET IT GO><\/a> Do other things that are uniquely YOU. Lean in to your strengths during the holidays, as you would any other time of year. It\u2019s more of a gift than you think \u2013 we don\u2019t want a different version of you at the expense of your joy. If you prefer to share experiences with your kids, pump that up – do fun things with your family. These are YOUR holidays, enjoy them. Yes, show up to important events, office or work holiday parties, etc\u2026 But don\u2019t overthink it. Go AND when you are ready, leave. If you are the life of the party and this is your favorite season \u2013 go all out! But remember, not everyone is like you. Stay true to who you are.<\/p>\n Number 4 \u2013 Family and Friends go hand in hand <\/strong><\/p>\n When it comes to family, you don\u2019t have to do the same thing you\u2019ve always done. If seeing your extended family leaves you depleted, add friends to the mix. You are an adult. You get to decide what you want to do. Change it up this year. YES, you can do that. Also, giving this season doesn\u2019t just mean things<\/em>. Give your family grace. If you need to, give the gift of forgiveness. Let go of grudges or old baggage you are holding on to. Look forward, not back. Give more smiles, give more compliments, give more attention. Those things don\u2019t break the budget and have lasting impact. Do it for yourself and for them. Then strategically think about how and who you want to spend your time this holiday season. (Be sure to let everyone know in advance so they can plan as well.)<\/p>\n Number 3 \u2013 Drink and be Merry<\/strong><\/p>\n And when you are at family gatherings or work parties or any party,<\/p>\n Drink Drink Drink – – – Water!<\/strong><\/p>\n Alcohol is a known depressant. It\u2019s no wonder that all of the \u201choliday cheer\u201d leaves us feeling depressed. Plus with the shorter days, we are not getting as much sunlight. Fix that with more water.<\/p>\n Drink twice as much water as alcohol. You will<\/u> feel better. If you don\u2019t drink at all, keep a glass of something in your hand and no one will bug you about not having a cocktail. You won\u2019t have to explain yourself over and over again and can have a good time! As a matter of fact, challenge yourself to not drink during a party or two. Perhaps you go alcohol free at your work holiday party \u2013 keep your wits about you and you may learn a thing or two about others there. \ud83d\ude09 Keep your good habits of hydration through the holidays and you won\u2019t be dragging into the new year.<\/p>\n Number 2 \u2013 Keep up your Wellness Habits<\/strong><\/p>\n